MY strengths/weaknesses/insecurities and ways to deal with them!!!

 Strengths: 

  • Humble
  • Kind 
  • Jolly
  • Passionate
  • Spiritual
  • LOVED
  • Very Social
  • Extremely creative
  • Witty
  • Hard-Shelled
  • Meditation
  • Being Childish
  • Being Genuine


Weaknesses:

  • Inaction/Procrastination 
  • Self-Sabotage 
  • Not the best looking
  • Financially Insecure
  • Feeling overly guilty even when not required
  • Require some alone time out of nowhere
  • Overthinking
  • Family bond
  • Soft on the inside (a weakness when I let the wrong people in)



Insecurities:

**Identifying:
  • Judgement of myself and others about me
  • Non-action mentality
  • Looks
  • Overthinking
  • People pleasing mentality
  • Career instability
  • Family bond
  • NOT FACING MY FEARS




**Origins:
  • Body shaming as a child which wasn't properly recognized at the time has somewhere within me left a void that I myself haven't recognized or worked towards.
  • Being a people pleaser in the past has made me shift my focus from myself to others.
  • Lack of financial stability, even though it has made me strong and aware. It has always stopped me from achieving/experiencing things that I would've liked to feel/ achieve.
  • The lack of SELF has made me run away from family confrontations leading to a sourer relationship than I would've liked.
  • Not facing my fears has left those fears to fester into things bigger than thy should've been.
  • The non-action personality that I have has stopped me from experiencing this life, other people and myself on a deeper level. The fears of my past rejections and failures leads me to take a more chilled out approach than the situation demands and I end up undervaluing myself. NOT HELPING ME GROW AND EVOLVE THROUGH FAILURES!!!!   



**Solution:
  • Accept yourself for who you are, the way you look, your personality type, your insecurities/ strengths/ weaknesses.
  • Keep focused on what you want to build in your life, yourself and your environment.
  • Knowing the fact that things will not always go in the way you expect them to.
  • Working on understanding the fact that you don't have to be a people pleaser. Even though it is a trait within you, USE IT WISELY.
  • Focusing on your finances, seeing the way they block my aspirations and experiences. Working on building some stability in my financial situation. Either through various different influx points or a solid one.
  • Understand your family's dynamics with a fresh perspective by taking a back-foot on the emtional end that I already carry.
  • Start facing my fears, insecurities and weaknesses head on, ONE STEP AT A TIME!
  • KEEP GROWING, KEEP EVOLVING, BE AWARE, BE KIND TO YOURSELF AND OTHERS THROUGH THIS PROCESS.
  • DON'T FORGET YOUR STRENGTHS, YOUR GROWTH, YOUR VISION OF YOURSELF, THE CHANGES YOU WANT TO BRING IN YOUR LIFE
  • STOP BEING AFRAID!!  

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